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March 04 can men understand?I WOULD LIKE AS MANY RESPONSES TO THE FOLLOWING STATMENT, OF WHICH I WILL GIVE A SHORT EXPLANATION OF NOW:
FOR MANY YEARS I HAVE QUESTIONED THE MOTIVES OF WOMEN IN GENERAL WHEN IT COMES TO 1. THOSE WOMEN WHO ARE INDEPENDANT, SELF SUFFICIENT, NOT MARRIED, NOT DEPENDING ON A HUSBAND OR BOYFRIEND FOR FINANCIAL SUPPORT AND HAVING CHILDREN. 2. THE SECOND GROUP WHICH I BELIEVE MAKES UP 80 % OF WOMEN (THIS IS A GUESS ON MY PART BASED ON SUBJECTIVE DATA COLLECTED OVER THE YEARS) .
LETS BEGIN WITH GROUP 2: AFTER SEARCHING THESE MANY YEARS FOR THE ANSWERS TO MANY QUESTIONS ABOUT HOW AND WHY WOMEN INTERACT WITH OTHER WOMEN WHEN A MAN IS AROUND THAT ONE OF THE WOMEN HAS INTRODUCED TO THE OTHER WOMAN. NOW ONE OF THE WOMEN KNOWS THE MAN LONGER AND MORE THAN LIKELY BETTER THAN THE OTHER THAT HAS JUST BEEN INTRODUCED. THE MAN CONVERSES WITH BOTH EQUALLY.
NOW HERE IS THE QUESTIONS I WOULD LIKE RESPONSES TO: WE WILL REFER TO THE WOMAN THAT KNOWS HIM LONGER #1 AND THE NEWCOMER#2. THE MAN IS NOT DATING #1 NOR HAS BEEN INTIMATE WITH #1 EVEN THOUGH HE COULD HAVE BEEN. MORE OR LESS FRIENDS HERE. WHILE CONVERSING WITH THE MAN AND #1 PRESENT, #2 ASKS A FAVOR OF THE MAN BUT ALSO WISHES TO PAY HIM (SO REALLY NOT A FAVOR IN SOME RESPECTS BUT A REQUEST). #1'S ATTITUDE BEGINS TO CHANGE
AND BEGINS TO GET COOL TO WOMAN #2. THE MAN WONDERS WHY, BECAUSE THIS IS HER FRIEND. STRANGE GLANCES APPEAR ON #1'S FACE. THE MAN PERFORMS THE FAVOR AND WOMAN #1 WANTS TO KNOW THE DETAILS FROM THE MAN. THE MAN HAS HELPED #1 WITH DAILY PROBLEMS BUT ONLY SLIGHTLY FINANCIALLY AND ONLY WHEN ASKED TO BY #1.
NUMBER 2 SPENDS THE FOLLOWING DAY WITH THE MAN GETTING TRANSPORTATION FOR URGENT EMPLOYMENT LICENSES. NO HANKY PANKY (LEGITAMATE). THE NEXT DAY # 2 ONLY SPENDS A SHORT TIME WITH THE MAN, THIS TIME SOCIALIZING. #1 BECOMES IRATE AT #2 (BUT NOT IN FRONT OF #2) BUT EXPLAINS TO THE MAN THAT #2 IS A BAD PERSON ONLY LOOKING TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF HIM AND SHOOTS A VOLLY OF BAD THINGS #2 HAS DONE IN THE PAST. IN THE NEXT BREATH #1 SAYS THAT #2 IS HER FRIEND. IN FRONT OF EACH OTHER AFTER #1 HAS SAID WHAT SHE HAS SAID ABOUT HER, THEY ACT FINE, GETTING ALONG, BEST BUDDIES. NOW #2 AND THE MAN ARE AWAY FROM #1 AND #2 SAYS SHE KNOWS WHY #1 IS ANGRY,BUT DOESN'T WANT TO TELL THE MAN. FINNALY # 2 EXPLODES THAT #1 IS JEALOUS BECAUSE (AND HERE IS WHERE I NEED RESPONSES) #1 FEELS IF THE MAN SPENDS TIME WITH #2 THEN SHE MIGHT BE LOSING OUT ON SOMETHING LIKE HELP THAT SHE SHOULD GET AND NOT #2. BEAR IN MIND #1 AND #2 ARE NOT INDEPENDANT, BOTH HAVE CHILDREN. THIS IS HOW #2 EXPLAINED IT TO ME. AT FIRST SHE REALLY DIDN'T WANT TO GIVE UP THIS INFORMATION ( WOMEN'S SECRET ON THEIR BEHAVIOR AND NOT TO BE SHARED BY MEN). AFTER BEING TOLD THIS BY #2, THE MAN LOOKED AROUND AND COULD SEE THIS BEHAVIOR BY WOMEN HAS HAPPENED IN THE PAST TO HIM AND HE HAD WONDERED WHY. IN FACT THIS HAS HAPPENED FREQUENTLY HE NOTED, BY WOMEN WHO ARE DEPENDANT ON MEN TO SOME EXTENT AND ARE DEPRESSED BY THEIR LOT IN LIFE. WHY WOULD #1 AND #2 FEEL THIS WAY KNOWING THE MAN IS MARRIED AND OWES HIS MAIN OBLIGATION TO HIS WIFE. THE MAN'S PERSONALITY IS ONE THAT HELPS EVERYONE MEN OR WOMEN, IF HE CAN. IS JEALOUSEY THE MAJOR PLAYER IN A WOMANS LIFE? IS THIS THE SECRET BY WHICH THEY TORMENT MEN? IS THIS WHY MEN DON'T UNDERSTAND WOMEN. I HAVE SEEN THIS PLAYED OVER AND OVER AGAIN. PERSONALLY BEING A MAN AND NEVER HAVING HAD TO COPE WITH CHILDBIRTH AND NEEDING FAVORS IT IS HARD TO UNDERSTAND WHY FOR ME.
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